{"id":522,"date":"2023-11-01T15:42:32","date_gmt":"2023-11-01T14:42:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/?p=522"},"modified":"2024-02-17T15:47:06","modified_gmt":"2024-02-17T14:47:06","slug":"chevaucher-le-tigre-ou-etre-face-a-son-pattern","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/2023\/11\/01\/chevaucher-le-tigre-ou-etre-face-a-son-pattern\/","title":{"rendered":"Chevaucher le tigre ou \u00eatre face \u00e0 son pattern"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Nos clients viennent avec leurs patterns et nous, les hypnoth\u00e9rapeutes les identifions, les d\u00e9samor\u00e7ons de mani\u00e8re \u00e0 ce que le client puisse les transformer.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-vivid-purple-color has-text-color wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Mais qu\u2019est-ce que nous faisons de nos propres patterns?<\/strong><\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image alignright size-large is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"683\" height=\"1024\" src=\"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mikael-kristenson-EXuKQaf3Ei8-unsplash-683x1024.jpg\" alt=\"\" class=\"wp-image-525\" style=\"aspect-ratio:0.6669921875;width:233px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mikael-kristenson-EXuKQaf3Ei8-unsplash-683x1024.jpg 683w, https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mikael-kristenson-EXuKQaf3Ei8-unsplash-200x300.jpg 200w, https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mikael-kristenson-EXuKQaf3Ei8-unsplash-768x1152.jpg 768w, https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mikael-kristenson-EXuKQaf3Ei8-unsplash-1024x1536.jpg 1024w, https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mikael-kristenson-EXuKQaf3Ei8-unsplash-1365x2048.jpg 1365w, https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/11\/mikael-kristenson-EXuKQaf3Ei8-unsplash-scaled.jpg 1707w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 683px) 100vw, 683px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Voici une histoire de supervision:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Les chevaux se manifestent de temps en temps dans mon imaginaire lors des s\u00e9ances d\u2019hypnose. Ils sont parfois farouches, noirs, \u00e9l\u00e9gants et libres; parfois moins farouches, bruns, costauds et travailleurs. Ils me rappellent mon grand-p\u00e8re, sa ferme, l\u2019odeur de chevaux et la peur \u2026<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Quand j\u2019avais 9 ou 10 ans je montais un cheval brun, costaud, vieux et farouche. Je ne voulais pas vraiment, il me faisait peur. Mais quelque chose a fait que je l\u2019ai mont\u00e9 quand m\u00eame. Le vieux cheval a du sentir ma peur. Tu imagines la suite ?&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je me suis trouv\u00e9e entra\u00een\u00e9e dans une chevauch\u00e9e d\u00e9cha\u00een\u00e9e. Aucun contr\u00f4le, la fuite en avant qui a finit par une chute libre dans le champs de bl\u00e9.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Depuis je n\u2019ai plus jamais mont\u00e9 un cheval, si ce n\u2019est pendant une s\u00e9ance d\u2019hypnose!<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">En effet, il se trouve que pendant certaines s\u00e9ances il se produit exactement la m\u00eame chose.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Je ne fais pas vraiment le choix d\u2019y aller. Quelque chose me fait peur mais j\u2019y vais quand m\u00eame. Et hop! au galop! je perds le client. Je ne l\u2019\u00e9coute plus car j\u2019\u00e9coute le vent siffler, je regarde d\u00e9filer les choses \u00e0 toute vitesse, je sens la peur.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Pas besoin de te dire que ces s\u00e9ances l\u00e0, ne se passent pas super bien.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avec Laurent et Alex j\u2019ai pu retrouver ce souvenir lors d\u2019une supervision. Il est la m\u00e9taphore m\u00eame de mon pattern: de ne pas vraiment choisir et de se laisser emporter. Je rencontre ce pattern aussi dans ma vie priv\u00e9e et dans des situations diverses.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Apr\u00e8s la supervision avec Transe-parence j\u2019ai retrouv\u00e9 un autre souvenir, plus douloureux, plus ancien. Un souvenir t\u00e9moignant d\u2019une violation de mon innocence d\u2019enfant. Peut-\u00eatre ce souvenir est \u00e0 l\u2019origine de la cr\u00e9ation de ce pattern; peut-\u00eatre pas.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Avec Alex nous avons fait un travail dans lequel j\u2019ai retrouv\u00e9 de la culpabilit\u00e9. Je me sentais coupable d\u2019\u00eatre comme \u00e7a et d\u2019agir comme \u00e7a. Je me sentais coupable d\u2019\u00eatre ce pattern.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Le pattern \u00e9tait devenu moi, moi j\u2019\u00e9tais devenue ce pattern.&nbsp;<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Et c\u2019est l\u00e0 ou \u00e7a coince. Car ce pattern ce n\u2019est juste qu\u2019une fa\u00e7on parmi pleins d\u2019autres fa\u00e7on de r\u00e9agir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Comme l\u2019histoire d\u2019Erickson o\u00f9 il demande \u00e0 quelqu\u2019un d\u2019imaginer toutes les mani\u00e8res diff\u00e9rentes de quitter une pi\u00e8ce: en rampant, en prenant un avion et d\u2019aller dans un autre pays pour prendre un autre avion l\u00e0-bas pour retourner, en caressant les murs, en chantant, etc.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Aujourd\u2019hui je suis confiante de trouver d\u2019autres mani\u00e8res de chevaucher. Peut-\u00eatre en fermant les yeux et en sentant la connexion avec le cheval; peut-\u00eatre dans l\u2019innocence de l\u2019enfant, peut-\u00eatre m\u00eame en devenant un cheval, un tigre, une ourse que l\u2019on ne chevauche pas\u2026vas savoir.<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"has-small-font-size wp-block-paragraph\"><em>Sandra Mayrhofer, Hypnoth\u00e9rapeute \u00e0 Grenoble<\/em>, Octobre 2023<\/p>\n\n\n\n<figure class=\"wp-block-image size-full is-resized\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" width=\"538\" height=\"246\" src=\"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Capture-decran-2022-01-17-a-17.24.59.png\" alt=\"Logo Sandra Mayrhofer Hypnoth\u00e9rapeute \u00e0 Grenoble\" class=\"wp-image-404\" style=\"aspect-ratio:2.186991869918699;width:70px;height:auto\" srcset=\"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Capture-decran-2022-01-17-a-17.24.59.png 538w, https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/wp-content\/uploads\/2023\/03\/Capture-decran-2022-01-17-a-17.24.59-300x137.png 300w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 538px) 100vw, 538px\" \/><\/figure>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Nos clients viennent avec leurs patterns et nous, les hypnoth\u00e9rapeutes les identifions, les d\u00e9samor\u00e7ons de mani\u00e8re \u00e0 ce que le client puisse les transformer. Mais qu\u2019est-ce que nous faisons de nos propres patterns? Voici une histoire de supervision: Les chevaux se manifestent de temps en temps dans mon imaginaire lors des s\u00e9ances d\u2019hypnose. Ils sont [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":14,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"site-sidebar-layout":"default","site-content-layout":"","ast-site-content-layout":"default","site-content-style":"default","site-sidebar-style":"default","ast-global-header-display":"","ast-banner-title-visibility":"","ast-main-header-display":"","ast-hfb-above-header-display":"","ast-hfb-below-header-display":"","ast-hfb-mobile-header-display":"","site-post-title":"","ast-breadcrumbs-content":"","ast-featured-img":"","footer-sml-layout":"","ast-disable-related-posts":"","theme-transparent-header-meta":"","adv-header-id-meta":"","stick-header-meta":"","header-above-stick-meta":"","header-main-stick-meta":"","header-below-stick-meta":"","astra-migrate-meta-layouts":"set","ast-page-background-enabled":"default","ast-page-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-4)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"ast-content-background-meta":{"desktop":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"tablet":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""},"mobile":{"background-color":"var(--ast-global-color-5)","background-image":"","background-repeat":"repeat","background-position":"center center","background-size":"auto","background-attachment":"scroll","background-type":"","background-media":"","overlay-type":"","overlay-color":"","overlay-opacity":"","overlay-gradient":""}},"footnotes":""},"categories":[15],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-522","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-la-posture-du-therapeute"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/14"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=522"}],"version-history":[{"count":5,"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":537,"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/522\/revisions\/537"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=522"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=522"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/transe-parence.fr\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=522"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}